Never haste in judgment لا تتسرع في اصدار الأحكام

A story about a father who made a wrong judgment about his daughter: 

قصة تتحدث عن اب أصدر حكما خاطئا في ابنته

A Father and his Daughter were playing in the park. His young daughter spotted an apple vendor. She asked her father to buy her an apple. Father didn’t bring much money with him, but it was enough to purchase two apple. So, he bought two apples and gave his daughter.

أب وابنته كانا يلعبان في المنتزه. لمحت ابنته بائع تفاح. فطلبت من ابيها ان يشتري لها تفاحة. ولكن الأب لم يأخذ معه الكثير من النقود سوى ما يكفي لشراء تفاحتين. لذلك اشترى لها تفاحتين. 

His daughter held one apple each in her two hands. Then a father asked her if she can share one apple with him.  Upon hearing this, his daughter quickly took a bite from one apple.  And before her father could speak, she also took a bite from the second apple.

حملت ابنته التفاحتين في كلتي يديها. ثم طلب منها ان تشاركه في واحدة منهن. وفور سماعها لطلب ابيها أسرعت بقضم تفاحة واحدة. وقبل أن يتفوه ابوها بكلمة، اسرعت الفتاة بقضم التفاحة الأخرى. 

A Father was surprised. He wondered what mistake he made raising her daughter that she acted in such a greedy way. His mind was lost in thoughts, that perhaps he is just thinking too much, his daughter is too young to understand about sharing and giving. A smile had disappeared from his face.

تفاجأ الأب. وتسآل عن الخطأ الذي ارتكبه في تربية ابنته كي تنشأ جشعة. فشرد في أفكاره بسبب تفكيره الزائد، فابنته ما زالت صغيرة لفهم معاني الأخذ والعطاء. واختفت من وجهه ملامح البهجة. 

And suddenly his daughter with an apple in her one hand said, “Father have this one, this one is much juiciest and sweeter”.  Her father was speechless. He felt bad about reaching to the judgement so quickly about a small child. But, his smile came back now knowing why his daughter quickly took a bite from each apple.

وفجأة رفعت ابنته بتفاحة وقالت: "خذ يا ابي هذه، فهذه أكثر نضجا وحلاوة". فعجز ابوها عن الكلام. وشعر بأسى حين حكم على ابنته الصغيرة بسرعة. وسرعان ما عادت البهجة الى محياه عندما عرف سبب أخذ ابنته قضمة من كل تفاحة. 

Moral: Don’t Judge anything too quickly or reach a conclusion. Always spare some time to understand things better.

العبرة من ذلك: لا تحكم على أمر ما أو تتوصل الى استنتاج بشكل سريع. دع هناك وقتا لفهم الأشياء بشكل أفضل.